Avoid letting your boyfriend shoot your music video unless he's a producer, director, or professional camera man. At the very least, grab a film school student who is trying to build his or her portfolio and ask him or her to help shoot your music video.
Develop a concept for your video. If rolling around in the sand on a beach doesn't fit in, skip it. Take a look at your lyrics and figure out what visuals best match your song. Come up with a storyline that fits those visuals.
Shoot the video at interesting locations. Even if you don't have the funds for perfect lighting and high-tech cameras, breaking up the locations can help make the video more interesting.
When you're performing in the video, make it a good performance. Practice in front of a coach, or at least a mirror or a good friend, to make sure that your movements aren't all over the place.
If you are performing a pop or hip-hop song, throw in a choreographed dance or two. To save money, ask a few dance students to perform in your video.