Choose a tipper that feels comfortable to you. Tippers come in various lengths, weights and shapes. If you are a beginner, try a tipper that has a bulge in the center, which can help you to grip it better.
Bend your right elbow at a 90 degree angle, and extend your right hand in front of you. Your thumb should be on top, and your little finger should be the closest to the floor.
Place the tipper in your right hand between your thumb and your palm. Your thumb should cross the tipper at its midpoint.
Rest your index finger on the top of the tipper. You can rest your middle finger on top as well if this feels comfortable to you. This grip should look similar to how you would hold a pencil or a pen.
Grip the tipper firmly enough so that it won't fall out of your hand, but allow enough flexibility that the tipper can bounce back and forth if you rotate your forearm.