* He was the oldest and most responsible: Darry was the oldest of the Curtis brothers, and he had to step up and become the guardian of his younger brothers, Ponyboy and Sodapop, after their parents' passing. This maturity and responsibility made him a figure of respect for the other Greasers.
* He was physically strong and capable: Darry was a strong, athletic young man who worked hard to provide for his family. This strength, both physical and mental, made him a natural protector for the other Greasers, especially in times of trouble.
* He had a fierce loyalty to his family and friends: Darry, despite his gruff exterior, deeply cared for his brothers and the other Greasers. He would do anything to protect them, even if it meant putting himself at risk.
* He was a source of guidance and wisdom: Darry, while sometimes strict, always offered guidance and support to the other Greasers. He helped them navigate the challenges of being young, working-class men in a society that often looked down on them.
While Darry wasn't a formal leader, his presence and actions made him a pillar of strength and guidance for the Greasers, making him the unofficial leader in the eyes of his peers.