1. Anne's arrival: While Marilla initially intended to send Anne back, the moment Anne's "sparkling, inquisitive eyes" met hers, Marilla felt a flicker of sympathy and a hesitant acceptance. This marked the beginning of their unusual bond.
2. Anne's first days: Anne's imaginative stories, her infectious enthusiasm, and her genuine love for Avonlea, despite its simplicity, began to chip away at Marilla's initial disapproval. Marilla found herself drawn to Anne's spirit and her relentless optimism, even when it got her into trouble.
3. The "Carrots and Cake" incident: Marilla's frustration with Anne's tendency to get into trouble reached its peak after Anne stole a whole bag of carrots and made a "delicious" cake out of them. However, this incident led to a significant turning point. Marilla, after initially scolding Anne, found herself laughing at the absurd situation and admitting to a glimmer of amusement. This marked a shift in their relationship, moving from strict disciplinarian to a hesitant but growing affection.
4. Anne's defiance and "The Bad Child": During a visit to the town, Anne's outspoken nature and her defiance towards Mrs. Lynde made Marilla realize the depth of her protectiveness. Even when Anne got reprimanded, Marilla stood up for her, revealing her burgeoning sense of love and loyalty.
5. Anne's "perfect" birthday: Anne's unexpected and touching birthday gift – a simple wild rose – revealed her genuine love for Marilla. Marilla, overwhelmed by this heartfelt gesture, finally admitted to herself that she loved Anne as much as she loved her own brother.
While these specific events highlight the evolution of Marilla's love for Anne, it's important to remember that her love grew gradually and organically. It was a slow realization, fueled by Anne's unique personality and the ever-strengthening bond between them.