Here's a breakdown of how this unfolds:
* Erik's father's death: The novel begins with the news of Erik's father's death in a car accident. This sudden loss throws Erik into a state of shock and grief, causing him to question everything about his life and his place in the world.
* Discovering his sexuality: Amidst his grief, Erik begins to understand his own feelings for other boys. This realization brings him both excitement and fear, as he navigates a world that doesn't always accept people like him.
* Dealing with bullying and social rejection: Erik faces constant bullying at school, primarily from the football team. This ostracization further isolates him and adds to his sense of being different and alone.
* Finding solace in unexpected places: Erik finds a sense of belonging and acceptance within a group of outsiders at school, including the "weird" and "different" kids, and even finds a friend in the school bully's younger brother.
* Coming out to his mother: This is a major event in the novel. Erik, despite his fear, reveals his sexuality to his mother, hoping for her understanding and support. His mother's reaction is complex and ultimately affirming, though not without her own struggles to reconcile with his truth.
While Erik's father's death is the initial catalyst, it's the journey of self-discovery and acceptance that forms the core of the novel. The main event is not a single incident, but rather a process of emotional growth and transformation that culminates in Erik's acceptance of himself.