As a nightclubs' social atmosphere is particularly geared toward dancing, the weight of significance of the act of dancing is extremely high. That's not to say an individual should not visit a nightclub if they aren't an excellent dancer. It simply means standing around and not moving at all will draw more attention than dancing poorly. In fact, most patrons of nightclubs aren't great dancers with professional training. The individuals who are can often be found in the middle of the dance floor showing off their skills. Therefore, it is important to add to the rest of the dance floor with simple, fluid movement.
There are many different types of dances suitable for a nightclub. Some are advanced and difficult, but a little instruction can add dimensions to your abilities on the dance floor. Others are simple, yet elegant and when used smoothly, will demonstrate an understanding of proper dance floor etiquette. A common form of dance in nightclubs playing top 40 and other popular music is the two-step. The two-step is commonly performed with a partner, but can be done solo as well. The name speaks for itself in that the dance is comprised of two fundamental steps. The first step is to bring your dominant leg and cross it behind the other leg. The second step is to simply bring your feet back to their original position and repeat with the opposite side. A beneficial video and great example of the two-step can be found at www.ehow.com/videos-on_3560_do-nightclub-two-step-dancing.html.
In addition to the two-step, there are a few tips necessary in showing comfort and confidence on the dance floor. The most important thing to do on the dance floor is to keep moving. If you are with a date and stop the flow of movement, your date is going to think you are uninterested and he or she will lose interest as well. If you are with friends and are the only one not dancing, it will be obvious. So make sure you continue to shuffle your feet, move your hips and move with the music.
Most nightclubs serve alcoholic drinks and although a couple drinks can be beneficial in loosening the mood and helping the apprehensive gain confidence, drinking in excess is detrimental. Going too much past the suggested two to three drink minimum will cause a lack in coordination, a lack of respect for those around you and a lack of respect for yourself. It is important to keep your composure. Furthermore, if you are having a drink at the club, do not bring the beverage on to the dance floor. Holding a drink while dancing will make it more difficult to dance, cause spilling and inevitably waste the drink. If you want a beverage, take a break from the dance floor and use the opportunity as a social break.
If these tips don't help establish or renew confidence in visiting a nightclub, then there are a number of services that may. Dance lessons are often relatively cheap, fun and offered in most metropolitan areas. Even attending a couple classes on the basics of salsa, ballroom, hip-hop, etc. is sure to provide an understanding of what it takes to look good dancing. Attending nightclubs with friends experienced and comfortable in the environment should ease the anxiety as well.