Determine ahead of time to accept your body and person for exactly how you are. Strip dancing requires a lot of confidence and knowing that you are pleasing to your partner's eye. Throw away the idea that you need to lose 10 pounds or really should get a tummy tuck. Like yourself for how you look and how you are on the inside right now.
Take a class to learn about pole dancing. The best way to learn is to actually do it. Pole dancing involves some dancing on the ground and wrapping yourself around a pole while holding poses and spinning. Pole dancing requires a lot of ab, arm and leg strength. Work on building that before attempting pole dancing as a stripteasing technique.
Give the man in your life a real joy by doing a straight striptease act. Find music that makes you feel sexy and free. Put on your best lingerie and layer up. Having two or three layers when stripteasing is okay. Take off one layer at a time to reveal something more provocative. Keep moving your body and engage him with your eyes. Keep eye contact and think in your mind, "I want you." Decide if you'll get completely naked or get down to just your bra and panties. Make sure to try to give him sneaky shots of your breasts and vagina while you're dancing.
Give your partner a lap dance for ultimate enjoyment in stripteasing. Lap dancing involves touching your partner, unlike the rest of stripteasing. Sit him in a chair where he can be reached from any angle. Couches and chairs against the wall are less effective. Tell him he cannot touch you. Start out by slowing dancing around him. Place your leg on the chair to reveal your underwear. Face backwards and straddle him while standing. Bend over and show him another angle. Come up, turn around, sit down on him and take off your top. Move seductively and slowly the entire time. Try experimenting with other moves that get him hot and make him want to touch you.