Before making the decision to ask a boy to a dance, a girl should talk to him and try to get a better understating of his hobbies, interests, and what types of activities he is involved in.
In some cases, the boy may not yet be interested in dating and could unintentionally reject the girl, which may hurt her feelings.
The best way to get to know a boy is to talk to him, which will make him feel comfortable around her, and increase the chances of him having a crush on her as well.
After establishing a friendship with the boy, the girl should take the next step, in which she communicates her feelings through her eyes and hands.
With her eyes she should make eye contact, as well as softly winking one of her eyes.
There are several gestures that can be done with the hands, such as simply dropping her pencil on the floor near his desk.
When he picks up the pencil and returns it to her, she should be sure to touch at least one part of his hand to show him that she really appreciates it.
After following the steps above, the girl should make the final move and ask the boy to the dance. This can be done verbally, or by simply writing him a note.
However, if it is done verbally, the girl should try to approach the boy when he is alone, as he may try to impress his friends and not really express his true feelings.
If she is not comfortable asking him out verbally, she can write him a note and place it on his desk before he arrives at school.