If you are kid and you are couple dancing with someone larger or taller, such as an adult, you may have to stand closer and place your hands on the hips of your partner instead of the shoulders. Your steps and movements may have to be larger to keep up with your partner's steps. Depending on the noise level you may even need to speak louder because of the difference in height. If you are being taught a new dance, it's OK to look at the feet of your partner to learn the steps, but try to keep lifting your head and eyes up to memorize the dance. Also, you will have a more sociable time if your head and eyes are raised.
Confidence is the mark of a true dancer. But when you are just a beginner, having confidence is easier said than done. Start by listening to the rhythm of the music. Find the beat with you feet, as you tap along. Next, start swaying or bouncing to the beat, followed by stepping side to side with the rhythm. When you are confident enough with the rhythm, you can larger movements, claps, and/or movement with your arms.
Shows like "So You Think You Can Dance" are kid-friendly and show the latest dance moves in many genres and feature professionals. Websites like YouTube have many videos on dancing, but not all of it is for kids. The same goes for some music video channels, as the dancing may be too suggestive. For kids who want to learn hands-on from a professional, joining a children's dance group that specializes in many different styles such as hip-hip, ballet, tap and jazz is the optimal choice.