Could you please provide more information or rephrase your question? For example, are you asking:
* "May I kiss someone who is not my significant other?"
* "Is it okay to kiss someone if they are not my significant other?"
* "Is it okay to kiss someone if there is no ash present?" (This one doesn't make much sense to me, so maybe you meant something else).
Once you clarify your question, I can help you understand the answer!