Determine the problem. When asking for help, it is important to know what help is necessary. For example, a pregnant woman might need help getting heavy objects, such as a new baby crib into the house. The problem is that she cannot lift the crib without risking harm. Some problems might take a little time to figure out, such as school homework.
Look at the potential consequences of not asking for help. When help is needed, but not received, there are always potential consequences. For example, the pregnant woman that needs a heavy object carried in might hurt herself and fall, harming herself and the unborn child. Someone with problems in school might fail a test. These are the potential cons of avoiding help.
Determine the best person to help with the problem. If the problem is lifting something heavy, the best person to help is a strong neighbor, sibling or similar individual. If the problem is school-related, ask the teacher for extra help out of class or ask a classmate that is doing well.
Figure out a way to word the request. Some requests, such as carrying in heavy objects, are minor and need a simple "will you help me" question. Other requests, such as asking classmates for help in studies, need more careful wording because it is a time-consuming request. Requests that are potentially time-consuming or imposing should have a way out of the request or leave a graceful way to decline. For example, a student asking the help of a classmate might offer a payment of $5 an hour for tutoring. In this case, the request for help is also a business proposition and the individual can turn it down if the request is not convenient.
Ask for help. Consider your needs and request help from the appropriate individuals.