1. He criticizes Romeo's excessive passion for Juliet.
When Romeo first comes to him, Friar Lawrence is concerned that Romeo's love for Juliet is too passionate and irrational. He chides Romeo for being "a whining schoolboy" and warns him that his love will lead to "untimely death."
2. He urges Romeo to be more rational and cautious.
Friar Lawrence advises Romeo to be more moderate in his love and to consider the potential consequences of his actions. He tells Romeo:
> "These violent delights have violent ends
And in their triumph die like fire and powder,
Which, as they kiss, consume."
3. He suggests that Romeo should delay the wedding.
Friar Lawrence suggests to Romeo that he should wait a while before marrying Juliet. He believes that this will give Romeo time to cool down and to make sure that his love for Juliet is truly lasting.
4. He warns Romeo about the dangers of impulsive action.
Friar Lawrence warns Romeo that impulsive actions can have dangerous consequences. He tells him:
> "Wisely and slow; they stumble that run fast."
Friar Lawrence's questioning of manhood is important because it helps to develop Romeo's character and to show the tragic consequences of his impulsive actions.