In the poem, the speaker, J Alfred Prufrock, often seems to be distancing himself from the content. For example, he often uses indirect language, such as allusions and metaphors, to talk about his feelings and experiences. This can make it difficult for readers to understand what he is really saying. Additionally, Prufrock often seems to be unsure of his own feelings, and he frequently contradicts himself. This can make it difficult for readers to get a clear sense of who he is and what he wants.