In *The Godfather: Part III*, Fredo Corleone, Michael's brother, does not smash a bathroom mirror with a crowbar.
It's his younger brother Michael who smashes a mirror in a fit of rage after learning about his daughter Mary's death. He is distraught and blames himself for her fate. He shouts "It's me! It's me!" before smashing the mirror.
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