It sounds like you may be referencing:
* David Bowie's 1984 album "Loving the Alien": This is a studio album by David Bowie, not a film or TV show, so it wouldn't have actors or actresses.
* A specific performance by David Bowie: Perhaps there was a specific live performance or concert in 1996 related to "Loving the Alien" that you are thinking of.
Could you please clarify what you mean by "Loving the Alien 4R - 1996"? If you can provide more context, I can help you find the information you're looking for.