To help me understand what you mean, could you please provide more context? For example:
* Where did you hear this phrase? (e.g., a book, a movie, a conversation)
* What was the context of the phrase? (e.g., were they being discussed in relation to a wedding, a church, a theater, etc.)
* What did you think the phrase meant?
With more information, I can better understand what you're asking and provide a helpful response.