2. Be discreet. When you're on a date, try to be as discreet as possible. Avoid PDA, and don't talk about your relationship in public.
3. Use a cover story. If you're worried about someone finding out about your relationship, you can use a cover story. For example, you could tell your friends and family that you're just friends with your partner.
4. Set boundaries. It's important to set boundaries with your partner about what you're comfortable with and what you're not. For example, you might agree to not spend the night together or to not tell anyone about your relationship.
5. Be prepared for the consequences. Secret dating can come with some risks. If your partner finds out about your relationship, they might be angry or hurt. They might also choose to end the relationship.